So cat owner, you want a nice cat or kitten who actually likes you touching him?

But he or she seems to be pretty much aggressive or tend to bite when you try to show affection?

Physical touch is a very important part of cat bonding, and if we don't have it, we sure feel as if we're missing out on something.

Well, you're not alone. This is one of the most frustrating cat behavior problems faced by cat owners everywhere.

So we must start off with realising that there are 3 types of cat aggression:

a) Playful stalking in cats

Has your cat ever ran up to you just to bite your ankles? This kind of biting behaviour is often caused by you stopping playing with your cat before the cat wants to.

Sometimes it even happens if he thought that you were going to play with him but didn't do so.

b) Offensive aggression in cats

Has you cat ever bitten you and keeps going for ages? And has this ever been triggered by petting your cat too hard or fast?

You were seeing the cat in play mode but now has transformed into biting behavior.

It occurs a lot more easily in less socialized cats (they have a lower threshold) than well socialised cats.

c) Defensive aggression in cats

This is a more unusual biting behavior but should be watched out for.

You'll see your cat bite you or have aggressive behavior but then he runs and withdraws to hide underneath a piece of furniture.

This type of aggression may be caused by a medical problem such as pain somewhere or hyperthyroidism. If you suspect this type of problem at all, then see your vet first.

See this ebook on cat behavior for full details.

So have a close look next time and see which type of cat aggression is being displayed by your cat.

For defensive aggression remember, consult your vetenarian.

For playful stalking or offensive aggression, you'll can teach your cat to enjoy you touching him and to stop him from biting you when you do!